5 Tips for BUSY Entrepreneurs Who Want to Be Fearless and Fierce.

This is a mental game. 

Let’s start there. Everything you see is a perception, once you are awake then you can make your dreams come true. Full stop.

So the first step is awakening and saving yourself.

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Today I am sharing with you some self assesment questions I ask myself to make sure that I am on track to fulfilling my goals.

  • Who do I need to become in order for me to succeed?
  • What do I need to learn for me to become the person that I want to be?
  • What’s keeping me so busy that I am being less productive than I would like to be?
  • Who do I need to reach out in order for me to complete my goals?
  • What are my strengths?
  • What are my weaknesses?
  • How can I focus on my strenghts and build them even stronger?
  • Am I doing what I said I would do when I was overly excited or have I slipped off because I have discovered that it’s a bit harder than expected?
  • Am I procrastinating or am I recovering and resting because my body and mind need a break?
  • Am I honest with my results or could I do more and better?
  • What are the tools that I have at hand for me to succeed?
  • What else could I be doing to get where I want to get faster?
  • What’s my plan?

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  • How can I measure my success?
  • How strong do I hit back after failure?
  • How can I make sure I am focused on my goals and shut down distractions?
  • How do I silence the noise of the world?
  • Where do I want to be 6 months from now?
  • What’s the greatest vision that I have for my life? 
  • Am I taking steps towards making that vision a reality or am I daydreaming and wishful thinking?
  • What are the habits that I need to implement, change or adopt for me to become who I dream to become?
  • Who am I?

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After asking yourself this questions and with a clearer view of where you stand you can then apply these 5 simple tips to become fearless and attack life with fierceness: 

  1. Have a clear vision – it will evolve and grow with you, what’s in store for YOU is much more than you can posibly imagine 😉 Believe! 
  2. Focus on what works and repeat over and over again – mastery is a habit, consistency is key. (Don’t confuse this with beating yourself up, choose wisely the pain you will endure, success will take it all from you, choose what makes your soul sing and give it your all!)
  3. Be resilient: do the hard things first thing in the morning – meditate and train hard.
  4. Have a can do attitude – your mindset determines the quality of your results.
  5. Plan and follow through with some steel balls – jump and the net will appear!

NEVER SETTLE!

Leave your comments below, I’d love to read your thoughts about this topic. 

If you’d like to find out more about my programmes and how can I help you achieve the success you deserve, if you want to see what’s been holding you back all this time email me to iammissfirestar@gmail.com and let’s talk so that I can give you 30 minutes of my time, some advice and a plan to move forward. 

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xx

Arya

 

How To Turn Your Fears Into Fuel and Go From Zero to Hero in 5 Steps.

Life is about growing your mind and your lifestyle, if you look for comfort chances are you aren’t going to fulfil your potential. If you are able to let go of your comfort and embrace uncertainty, get high building strength in front of adversity, if you are hungry and willing to learn and be helped and guided, then you will feel the fear of the unknown and yet, live the journey to success with much ease. 

Silence the noise of the world, shut down the naysayers, kick life hard when it knocks you down, be reborn, understand who you are and understand that the chains of life are merely illusions.

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When I decided to go full on with my coaching business I had no idea of what I was going into, admin work, accounts, taxes, bills, organising my money, getting rid of unhealthy habits that could spread like fire, it’s more about inner work and taking ownership of my behaviour than systems and procedures.

Business in the end is a way for us to accomplish our dreams, is a tool to help us achieve our goals and make an impact. 

Our business is connected to our personal brand that’s our personal core. 

Your business reflects who you are but it’s not you. 

To be successful you have to kill ego, you have to let go of the character and be bold to get what you want. 

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Starting a business, scaling an existing one, anything that pushes you out of your comfort zone will push your buttons and bring to the surface actions that you kept buried in the subconscious until you work on them. 

In order to go from zero to great you will have to face your deepest fears and procrastination.

How? 

Meditate. 

Seriously. It’s the best way to embrace who you are. 

And then: 

  • Acknowledge that you are scared, admit it and take ownership of your fears. 
  • Understand that fears aren’t real, they are product of your monkey mind, past beliefs and your choices.
  • Make a choice, seeing them as opportunities to rise or staying where you are dormant to your true potential.
  • Take action, one day at a time, with action you build up confidence and the better your results the more fearless you become. 
  • Every time you feel the fear reframe it, if you aren’t feeling uncomfortable you aren’t growing, feel the excitement, you are about to breakthrough!

YOU are always in control.

YOU can always make a choice. 

YOU can always choose how YOU act.

If YOU feel like you are moving in circles, take a step back and adjust, review the plan, change. 

YOU are the creator. 

Your game, your choices, your rules!

Create! 

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NEVER SETTLE!

Leave your comments below, I’d love to read your thoughts about this topic. 

If you’d like to find out more about my programmes and how can I help you achieve the success you deserve, if you want to see what’s been holding you back all this time email me to iammissfirestar@gmail.com and let’s talk so that I can give you 30 minutes of my time, some advice and a plan to move forward. 

ONLY 5 SPOTS AVAILABLE.  FIRST COME. FIRST SERVED. 

xx

Arya

 

How to grow from change.

Move to a new city! Seriously 😉

When I moved to London I knew that I wanted to build a company, I had no clue about business and what it really meant but I knew what I wanted to learn and all my intentions where towards that goal.

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Moving to a new country can be scary but I had traveled around the world, mostly solo for almost a year and a half and I have siblings here so that made things a bit easier.

But the challenges are what makes us grow and I had to figure out ways of living here while finding my way, from house sitting to sharing flat with friends and family, sleeping in a mattress on the floor, to working in the food to go section of a health store, to walking 40 minutes to take the train in the snow at 4am to sleep 5 hours and workout and eat rice and beans, all for the dream.

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Some might have had it harder, it doesn’t matter, we all face challenges in this life, we all have our battles to win and our lessons to learn, what matters here is the proof that if you want something and your are stubborn enough to follow that call you will find a way to make it happen no matter the struggle.

Victim mentality is one where you get angry, annoyed and pissed off when things don’t go your way.

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I used to hate this in others and one day I learned that I had been doing the same, nagging, whining, crying and complaining like a mediocre person would do and that’s what great people teach us, you whip your tears and stand up again no matter what happens.

Acknowledging the power within is knowing that even when things don’t go according to your plan there is a bigger plan and everything is going perfectly according to that plan.

Moving to a new country is the best learning experience you can gift to yourself.

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It took me a year to feel like I am living in London and I know I have only seen a small glimpse of what the city can give.

You will only get as far as your beliefs. You want a different reality? Challenge your beliefs and question why you have been doing things the way you are doing them.

Jump! Take risks! Do things your way because if you never try you will never know if it works for you or not.

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If you’d like to find out more about my programmes and how can I help you achieve the success you deserve, if you want to see what’s been holding you back all this time email me to iammissfirestar@gmail.com and let’s talk so that I can give you 30minutes of my time, some advice and a plan to move forward. 

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How to define love for yourself.

I have read this a few times “love starts within” and I couldn’t grasp what it really meant.

Let’s leave aside the word/concept of love, will write an article with my thoughts on that topic a bit later.

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But what does that statement mean? If you have parts of yourself that need attention and healing you will attract people in your life who will act in ways that will push all your buttons until you decide once and for all to check your inner world.

Self love has to be a discipline, self love is not half ass makeup, get a personal trainer, buy new clothes or change your habits. Self love is facing the “good”* and the “ugly”* and being ok with it. 

*who decides what is good and what is right for you? who decides what is good and what is ugly? 

The only way to see another person truly is by being true to yourself, then you can understand what someone else might be going through. But most important, you start to comprehend why you do the things you do, why some things happen the way they do and you gain your power back, day by day, little by little.

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If we expect someone else to fix us, we are doomed. 

If we expect someone else to complete us, we are insane. 

If we expect someone else to give us the love we want, we are being dishonest. 

If we expect from others what we are not willing to give to ourselves we are settling for less than we deserve and signing a contract with pain. Over and over again. 

Love must start in our core, being selfish with our time and space, with our company.

Love yourself so deeply that you don’t care anymore about what other people might think, you speak your truth, even when it hurts.

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Love yourself so deeply that you embrace both light and dark and allow yourself to experience life in your own terms.

Love yourself so much that you invest in your wellbeing first and foremost, that you explore your depths through meditation and test the external world to conquer your fears.

Love yourself so much that you question your taboos and beliefs daily and make the adjustments you want to get the experiences that you want to live.

Love yourself so much that you go for what you want. Classy but, RUTHLESSLY! 

Love is a concept. And it all starts in how you see yourself!

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You are worthy of love and belonging.

But first of all, do you belong to yourself?

If you’d like to find out more about my programmes and how can I help you achieve the success you deserve, if you want to see what’s been holding you back all this time email me to iammissfirestar@gmail.com and let’s talk so that I can give you 30minutes of my time, some advice and a plan to move forward. 

ONLY 5 SPOTS AVAILABLE.  FIRST COME. FIRST SERVED.