How your beliefs shape your reality.

The other night I was at an event and someone said something about karma…ok, here is the thing, who knows that karma is true and why is it true?

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This could sound crazy, there are universal laws, I agree with that, you get what you give but, who was the first person to bring in the word and concept of karma?

I could go back again into history and yes, the Vedic scriptures, with all my respect, whatever.

Simply because it has been written and passed onto generations doesn’t mean it’s truth.

It’s another concept, another belief. And the more we believe in it the more real it becomes and the more it affects our lives.

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You know what I believe? That we create our reality, we create our reality from the inside out, we create our reality in our minds and see the physical world bring us a projection of what we imagined. 

Luckily for us, this manifestations aren’t instantaneous, otherwise can you imagine the mess?

Why do you think some people get richer and richer and others get poorer and poorer? Because the information they are consuming is completely different, they are wired differently, not because they are better, simply because they see life from a different perspective. From the perception of infinite possibilities instead of a limited amount of chances. 

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The good thing is that if you are willing to make a difference you can tune into this knowledge, hardwire your brain with what you need to succeed and transform your live completely.

Buddha said: what you think you become! And that it’s truth because I am testing it, through self development and challenging myself to get out of my confort zone, if I look back I see where I decided to make a breakthrough and here I am, writing, just the way I imagined that it would happen one day.

So what are your beliefs?

What do you want to achieve?

What’s holding you back?

And stop blaming others, there are no others, it’s only you and what you think you can’t do that’s holding you back.

Self education is basic for your growth, stretch your mind, expand your vision, evolve and see how the world changes around you.

Your thoughts create beliefs, beliefs shape your actions and your actions decide your destiny. 

Think right, think your own thoughts, decide what you want and become the powerful creator you already are.

If you’d like to find out more about my programmes and how can I help you achieve the success you deserve, if you want to see what’s been holding you back all this time email me to iammissfirestar@gmail.com and let’s talk so that I can give you 30minutes of my time, some advice and a plan to move forward. 

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Arya

How to define love for yourself.

I have read this a few times “love starts within” and I couldn’t grasp what it really meant.

Let’s leave aside the word/concept of love, will write an article with my thoughts on that topic a bit later.

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But what does that statement mean? If you have parts of yourself that need attention and healing you will attract people in your life who will act in ways that will push all your buttons until you decide once and for all to check your inner world.

Self love has to be a discipline, self love is not half ass makeup, get a personal trainer, buy new clothes or change your habits. Self love is facing the “good”* and the “ugly”* and being ok with it. 

*who decides what is good and what is right for you? who decides what is good and what is ugly? 

The only way to see another person truly is by being true to yourself, then you can understand what someone else might be going through. But most important, you start to comprehend why you do the things you do, why some things happen the way they do and you gain your power back, day by day, little by little.

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If we expect someone else to fix us, we are doomed. 

If we expect someone else to complete us, we are insane. 

If we expect someone else to give us the love we want, we are being dishonest. 

If we expect from others what we are not willing to give to ourselves we are settling for less than we deserve and signing a contract with pain. Over and over again. 

Love must start in our core, being selfish with our time and space, with our company.

Love yourself so deeply that you don’t care anymore about what other people might think, you speak your truth, even when it hurts.

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Love yourself so deeply that you embrace both light and dark and allow yourself to experience life in your own terms.

Love yourself so much that you invest in your wellbeing first and foremost, that you explore your depths through meditation and test the external world to conquer your fears.

Love yourself so much that you question your taboos and beliefs daily and make the adjustments you want to get the experiences that you want to live.

Love yourself so much that you go for what you want. Classy but, RUTHLESSLY! 

Love is a concept. And it all starts in how you see yourself!

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You are worthy of love and belonging.

But first of all, do you belong to yourself?

If you’d like to find out more about my programmes and how can I help you achieve the success you deserve, if you want to see what’s been holding you back all this time email me to iammissfirestar@gmail.com and let’s talk so that I can give you 30minutes of my time, some advice and a plan to move forward. 

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