How to take control (back) of your life.

If you are waiting for someone to hand you the success you seek you must be delusional. 

If you believe that you can have absolutely everything that you can imagine then you are delusional and you are right. 

How do you wake up? Embrace the pain because the pain is showing you where you need to take action, be present, get out of your head, switch off the music, leave the phone on the table and go out to the street, yes, right now, and observe, observe people.

We live the majority of our lives in our heads. Get out of your stream of thoughts and observe the reality you are creating. Always worrying about what others may think of you.

Why. Do. You. Care?

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Evaluate your life!

Where are you going? 

What do you want? 

Who are you and who are you becoming? 

Are you satisfied? 

Are you happy? 

Are you proud? 

Are you hungry or simply following the sheep pack and climbing up a never-ending ladder? 

Are you truly following your heart or trying to fill in a void with new addictions?

Now you will look up and think, who? me?

I am not this person! I am successful, I am powerful, I am doing what I want!

Are you?

What would happen if you walked out from your work today because you have decided that today you deserve a day off, to walk in the park, put your mind in place and re think your strategy?

What would happen if you decided to move to another country and start all over?

The bills, the mortgage, the flat, what are they going to say, family, friends…bla bla bla…bloody excuses! 

You know what?

You know that dream you have in your heart and that you are allowing that little voice to silence? That’s fear wining the battle over love, the love of self.


Because it’s easier to blame others than to step out of the confort zone and face the truth. 

Fear of true commitment, fear of abandonment, fear of death, fear of feeling vulnerable, fear of her heart being broken again, fear of missing a chance, fear of not being enough, fear of being too much, fear of asking for too much, fear of being too hard to get, fear of being too difficult, fear. 

IT’S TIME TO WAKE UP AND GROW UP! No more blaming others for our circumstances! 


To be continued next Tuesday…:)

If you’d like to find out more about my programmes and how can I help you achieve the success you deserve, if you want to see what’s been holding you back all this time email me to and let’s talk so that I can give you 30minutes of my time, some advice and a plan to move forward. 



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